Loneliness

Lately I’ve been reflecting on the root causes of loneliness, and have realized that, for me at least, loneliness is caused by feeling myself to be alone in my thoughts.  The thoughts may be ideas, hopes, dreams, plans, aspirations, or revelations.   When I realize that those around me are either unable or unwilling to enter my inner world long enough to understand these thoughts, it is then that loneliness often ensues.

What is the opposite of experiencing loneliness?  Perhaps it is to experience fellowship, for it is in those moments that another has truly seen and understood even a small part of my inner world that I feel the opposite of lonely.   The more authentic fellowship I experience from even a few, the less those who don’t understand matter, the more I am able to love those who even willfully misunderstand.  It was Jesus’ perfect fellowship with the Father that empowered Him with grace to love and forgive both disciple and pharisee, prostitute and priest.

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One response to “Loneliness

  1. Neil Sinclair

    I am going through that right now. For some reason I am at peace with it. I think it is neccessary. People don’t listen and I learned that absence is pivitol for the Father to do his work. In John 6:44 Jesus said no man can come to me unless the Father has sent him. The context of it is coming into a relationship. My part is to give up control to the Father the same way Christ did so that His will flourishes.

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